Were these children of illegals abandoned by their parents?

I myself live in Mexico I have dual citizenship, I do not understand why the Mexicans keep pouring into the states when Mexico in fact has many opportunities with its growing economy and educational system I am left in full duh mode. The uneducated older generation put it into the heads of there children that such things as school and jobs and making a good living our tools of the devil as well as signs of greed like the gringos and that they especially the girls should stay with there mothers and take care of them as they get older this generation is slowly dying out therefore making room the much needed growth and expansion of Mexico. I met a 40 year old woman who told me her mother taught her that she would be granted full access to heaven if she never married and staid home until she died. That is pretty disturbing however the more so upper class is entirely different in every-way they own and start new business' and succeed does anyone ask well how did they do it. Sure the reply is most often Ellos son ricos (they are rich) these people are afraid to get credit lines to advance there life are they stupid no just ignorant to life. So as far as the kids in the states born to illegals there parents are selfish low class idiots in my opinion go back to your country and do something with yourself you can buy beer and party but you can't save money and start a business get over it I failed to see the sign when i enter the US that says free gold for everyone.